Come Back Together with Christian Marriage Counseling in MN

Does it feel like all you and your spouse do it argue?

Or perhaps you've just stopped talking because it never gets anywhere?

Are you drifting apart, or just noticing it's been occurring for years?

Are there topics you don't talk about anymore because you don't feel heard?

Communications, difficult topics, anger, avoidance, etc, can tear a marriage apart, brick by brick, or cause the slow drifting like two boats not tied together.

It's time for a marriage upgrade.

Take the first step toward a stronger, healthier marriage. Contact a compassionate and experienced Christian marriage counselor in MN today. Schedule your session and start your journey toward a more fulfilling relationship.

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Gottman Method for Effective Communication

from a Biblical Perspective

Choosing Unlocking Beauty, llc for your Marriage Counseling in MN can be beneficial for several reasons:

I have trained in the Gottman Method: With nearly 40 years of research backing up the tools and techniques this marriage counseling method helps couples to make lasting change.
All of this research I view through the lens of the Bible.

Personalized Care: I want to hear what's going on in your marriage and come up with a plan that works specifically for you to get back on track.

Comprehensive Therapeutic Modalities: In addition to the Gottman communication skills, I also look over the other aspects of marriage and make sure you know all the building blocks needed to not only reengage and improve your marriage but to keep it going and Christ-centered.

Convenience and Accessibility: I provide online sessions, making it easy for clients throughout Minnesota, including those in Hennepin, Stearns, and St. Louis counties, to access our services from the comfort of their own homes. For couples, this can mean that you don't have to be in the same room for counseling. At times work can be a large hinderance for those seeking marriage counseling, no worries with online. I've helped many couples have success even from different locations for sessions.

Experienced and Compassionate Therapist: I am a highly trained and compassionate professionals dedicated to helping clients achieve their mental health goals. I see problems as a system change that needs to happen, not his or her fault.

By choosing Unlocking Beauty, llc for Marriage Counseling in MN, clients receive high-quality, convenient, and effective mental health care tailored to their specific needs.

Diane Cerven, LPCC, Online Christian Therapist in Minneapolis and Greater MN, Specializing in Christian Counseling for: anxiety and marriages. -Plus Christian Mentorship-

HI THERE, I'M DIANE.

Marriage is the most meaningful relationship we have in our lives, (below our relationship with God). It can also be the hardest. I help couples:

Become confident and assertive.

Communicate about the hard things.

Increase Peace in your lives.

Have strong secure relationships.

Or fill in the blank with your need!

I bring my 20 years of experience and my heart to help others to everything I do. I've worked through the hard stuff myself and want to see everyone get to their best marriage.

Is it easy? Not always.

Is it worth it? YES!!!

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The #1 Advice I can Give You for Your Marriage:

Know what you're actually upset about

I know that sounds silly or simple but I've worked with so many people that argue about what happened and not the deeper reason it was a problem to them at that time.

If we ask ourselves, what is the reason this bothered me today, we can then come up with the answer that our spouse needs to hear. Don't forget we can ask the person of wisdom, Jesus, to help us understand ourselves.

Perhaps, you're stressed from things at work. That's the real reason it was a problem today.

It may not be a today thing but something that bothers you most times it happens. What is the real reason it is a problem? A sensitive subject, because of stress or anxiety, it's a value you have, etc. Dig Deep!

Then when you talk to your spouse, bring up the real reason it upset you, in a way that is from your perspective (I statements). You'll see a lot more willingness to talk when you open up about what's really upsetting you.

Frequently Asked Questions about Marriage Counseling in MN

What Type of Counselor is Best for Marriage?

A counselor that has done extra studies in marriage counseling, like how I've studied and trained in the Gottman Method, and that you both feel respects you, your beliefs, and can collaborate with you so you get the tools needed for your marriage. Also, one that has the same Biblical world view. ultimately, a Christian marriage counselor that is trained is best.

Can Couples Counseling Save a Relationship?

To start Jesus can help all people. In counseling, if both parties in the couple are open, honest, forgiving, and willing to do the work, then yes, Christian couples counseling can save the relationship. It will take digging though the past for healing and perspective, as well as learning the skills to move forward into tomorrow. God gave us these tools in order to find His path for each of our marriages.

Why do Married Couples go to Christian Marriage Counseling in MN.

Relationships can be hard and very few of us are equipped or trained before going into a marriage to handle the complexity of the relationship. Many of us have grown up in households with broken marriages or our parents marriage wasn't that great. Even if it was, we marry a different person with a different background, expectation, and ways of communicating. Marriage counseling can breakthrough the struggles and bring clarity to you and your spouse on how to improve your marriage. Read more in the blog.

Christian Marriage Blog

Turning Towards in Listening

At the heart of every conversation is the desire to be heard. For someone to acknowledge our presence, even when we’re just remarking on something unimportant.

We want to know that the other person, especially our spouse, hears us. Jesus said many times let there be ears to hear. Even He was looking to be heard in a way that He was understood.

Couples Therapy vs. Marriage Counseling

When spouses face challenges in their relationship, they often seek professional help to navigate their issues and strengthen their bond. Jesus told us there would be troubles in this world.

The terms "couples therapy" and "marriage counseling" are frequently used interchangeably, leading to confusion about whether they are the same or different. In reality, both refer to the same process of helping couples improve their relationship dynamics, communication, and overall satisfaction. Let's explore the common goals, techniques, and benefits of these interventions, regardless of the terminology used.

Why Do Married Couples Go to Christian Marriage Counseling in MN?

Marriage is a rewarding journey that God has blessed us with, but it’s not without its challenges. Many married couples in Minnesota seek couples therapy for various reasons, aiming to strengthen their relationship and address issues that may be causing distress. Here are some common reasons why couples decide to pursue Christian marriage counseling in MN: